So, after a wonderfully blazing hot day of chasing wires, I got the control wire from my ECU to the fuse block to be working tip top. The control pin on my relay now gets 9-12v whenever my key is turned.
So, I was all excited and went to go start it up, and still no fuel pump prime. So I went back through and checked everything, and it appears that my problem has cleverly jumped to the bottom spade of my relay instead of the control spade. Now I am not getting 12v of power to the receiving end of my relay when the key is turned. The live side is still getting 12v, and the pump still runs perfectly fine when the two connections are jumpered.
So I'm beginning to think that all of my problems were indeed from a failed relay, and perhaps the two relays that I bought from the store (first one was definitely the wrong PN) just happened to be duds?
That being said, Does anyone have a guaranteed working fuel pump relay that they could help me test with?